Your ruling is nothing more than a legalistic temper tantrum. Each of you should immediately resign the bench that you are clearly unqualified to occupy, and that you have immeasurably shamed before a nation of aghast and baffled Americans.
Or perhaps you should cross that mental Mason-Dixon line and enter the year 2015, where the civil rights are not denied to people based on the antiquated homophobic bias. Where judges cannot devalue nor disenfranchise a person based on their sexual preference.
You may also want to take a quick look at this thing called The Supremacy Clause of the United States Constitution. You can whine and cry all you want, but you will always be outranked by the federal judiciary. Always. Period.
The Alabama State Supreme Court: This is what happens when cousins marry.